Public Opinion..

Baru - baru ini salah seorang teman gw cerita ttg hubungannya yg sedang di ambang keraguan..
Sebuah hubungan yg menurut gw, sangat manis (mungkin karna baru beberapa bulan) dan mengarah ke jenjang yg serius..

Temen gw ini, dpt dibilang sudah dalam usia matang, walaupun klo diliat..masih kategori under 30, even she's not..
Dan sang "prince charming" adalah sosok yang amat menarik pula..Muda, kaya, sukses, ganteng...u name it lahh..
Perbedaan umur, bukan kendala (tmn gw ini lebih tua beberapa tahun dari pacarnya), dan si laki2 pun menerima walaupun tmn gw ini pernah menikah dulunya..
Well, pernikahan sekejap yang tidak membuahkan anak..jadi,mustinya ga ada masalah dong yaah?!?

Tapi berjalannya hubungan mereka, tmn gw bilang klo pacarnya yg dulu sangat menginginkan pernikahan yg secepat2nya..malah jadi ingin mundur sejauh2nya..
Rupanya, usut punya usut.."Prince charming" terpengaruh dengan omongan keluarganya yg menginginkan dia untuk necarai yg lain dulu, sebelum memutuskan untuk menikah.
Dan akhirnya terbukalah juga ttg status tmn gw ini..dan semakin kuat lah keinginan keluarga si prince charming untuk menutuppintu utk tmn gw ini..

Sebagai teman, gw coba untuk mendengarkan dan mengolah dengan logika gw..
Kemarahan yg meledak2 dari tmn gw atas pendapat keluarga sang pacar ttg dia dan sikap si "prince charming" itu sendiri , yg menurut tmn gw..salah langkah!!

Sebenernya, klo dilliat..ga ada yg salah dengan tmn gw ini..dia cantik,kaya, supel dan masih sangat muda klo dbandingkan dengan umurnya..memang dia dulu pernah menikah, tapi pernikahan itu berjalan sangat singkat dan tidak membuahkan anak..Setelah surat resmi pengadilan keluar, mustinya tidak ada masalah klo dia berniat untuk mencari pendamping lagi.

Memang sulit untuk negara yg menganut budaya ketimuran menerima sesuatu yg diluar kebiasaan..Tmn gw bersikeras klo dia ga setuju dgn keluarga sang pacar yg sudah menjudge dirinya sebelum bertemu secara langsung.Walaupun klo dipikir", adalah hak seseorang untuk mempunyai pendapat ttg seseorang.Apalagi jika ini berkaitan dengan masa depan salah satu anggota keluarga mereka.
Kemarahan tmn gw pun beralasan, dia merasa tidak seperti apa yg orang' pikir ttg seorang janda..Selama ini dia menjalani hidup dengan normal2 aja..menjadi wanita karir dan bersosialisasi dengan sewajarnya..Dia merasa pendapat mereka ttg dia, tidak pada tempatnya.karna menurut dia, dia tidak akan pernah melakukan hal itu..
We'll see about that..

Anyway,
Public opinion..suka atau tidak suka,sudah terbangun dari jaman kakek neneknya kakek nenek kita..
Agak sulit kalau kita mau merubah sesuatu yang sudah lama terbangun kuat, menjadi sesuatu yang lebih sesuai dengan perubahan jaman.
Mungkin kita sekarang tidak terlalu perduli dengan opini publik. Tapi begitu kita tersandung dalam masalah yg ada hubungannya dengan public opinion, mungkin beda lagi pemikirannya..

Well,
From now, please open ur mind for something out of the box..
Ga selamanya, seorang janda itu penggoda..ga semuanya ibu tiri itu jahat...ga selamanya uang itu sumber kebahagiaan..dan masih banyak "ga selamanya dan ga semuanya" yg masih hidup dalam masyarakat kita.

Cheers..

Guilty Pleasure...

When we were born in this world, it would be more easier if we had a modul to turn to..
nobody told me it would end up like this..no body say it's not gonna be easy too

So, who's to blame beside myself??

i've choose my way..and i've passed so many U turn..but i never take that change..
now,i almost get there..but i freak out..
so many 'what if??' in my head..it's getting louder every minute..

i know it's hard for u,for me,for all of us..so,please..don't make it more harder..
i never want it this way..

i'm begging to be find a way to convince myself..this is it..
this is my glory..this is what i want..this for the looong waiting..

but,why do i still feel incomplete?
why i even want this??
relationship is complicated..if i take 1 wrong move..then i'm out of the game..

Sexy Grace

Sweetest Taboo

Well,

it's about something that you and i must have had experience..
i bet, everybody had experience this feeling before
It's about something you're not suppose to do..
But you just can't resist it..

It's like you love chocolate very much
But you're not suppose to eat it, coz you're on a diet
That sucks rite?!?
But to imagine how the taste of the chocolate melt in your tongue..
whoaaa..that's irresistable!!

But i'm having my sweetest taboo..
in a different way, of course :)

I want something that i shouldn't have..
I just can't resist the feeling (so help me GOD) and it just happen..
I know it's wrong..
I know i shouldn't go near too..

But, heyy..
I'm only human..
if the temptation is coming frequently..and harder everytime it come
How am i gonna control myself??

It's wrong..
It's uncontrollable..and unstopable!!
But, it's greaaattt!!!
Beautiful sin..
Sweetest taboo..

I'm sick for being addicted to this guy..
wanna stop..but i'm lost without this feeling..
Why nobody tell me that this kind a thing coz addiction?!

I made my rules..
I play my part..
but i'm lost in my own game..sighhh
What am i supposed to do??
He gave me no option..

i'm addicted to my sweetest taboo..

Womanizer

This is a story about someone..that i known

People say u are something..
With no words spoken..with nothing unusual..
Just "plain" you...

Some people think you are dangerous..u got this poison ivy thing for woman..
no escape from your charm..
I don't know what make u..is it your eyes??is it your smile?? or it's just the way you are that make u look the way u look..

U're not a player..nor a scumbag..
There's no lame word come out from your mouth..no heroic act for your existence..nothin'
Just "plain" u..

I try to learn about you..what make u can be what u are..
I try to explain and think logic.but none of them make sense..
Then why people say you're dangerous??why people make statement from public opinion..
But soon i learn..u've got something what women want..what women need..and u use it to please them..
not seduce them and fill them with stupid words..
But, women love to receive..especially when it comes of what they need nor what they want..
Women love to be seduce..to feel comfy and knowing that someone adore them..
it's human nature..
And you combine those two ingredients..seduce to please them.
Add a little charm..then here come prince charming..
Too good to be true...

And so u know what they want..
u give them..then soon, u make yourself part of it..
U became a "pleaser"..
Then we (Woman) just can't take our eyes from you..fall apart for you, even they should not to..
Spin our head when u walk by..
So, that's why they call you Womanizer..
U are just a magnet for woman..once we got caught, it's hard to get away from you...
even for just a blink of an eye..

Graceey...